Interpersonal forgiving in close relationships
01 Aug 1997-Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (American Psychological Association)-Vol. 73, Iss: 2, pp 321-336
TL;DR: Evidence is found consistent with the hypotheses that the relationship between receiving an apology from and forgiving one's offender is a function of increased empathy for the offender and that forgiving is uniquely related to conciliatory behavior and avoidance behavior toward the offending partner.
Abstract: Forgiving is a motivational transformation that inclines people to inhibit relationship-destructive responses and to behave constructively toward someone who has behaved destructively toward them. The authors describe a model of forgiveness based on the hypothesis that people forgive others to the extent that they experience empathy for them. Two studies investigated the empathy model of forgiveness. In Study 1, the authors developed measures of empathy and forgiveness. The authors found evidence consistent with the hypotheses that (a) the relationship between receiving an apology from and forgiving one's offender is a function of increased empathy for the offender and (b) that forgiving is uniquely related to conciliatory behavior and avoidance behavior toward the offending partner. In Study 2, the authors conducted an intervention in which empathy was manipulated to examine the empathy-forgiving relationship more closely. Results generally supported the conceptualization of forgiving as a motivational phenomenon and the empathy-forgiving link.
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TL;DR: In this article, the authors examined the psychometric properties of two forgiveness scales using participants enrolled at a Midwestern Catholic university (N = 328) and found that the Forgiveness Likelihood Scale was significantly correlated in the expected direction with measures of forgiveness, religiousness, trait anger, religious well-being, and social desirability.
Abstract: This study examined the psychometric properties of two forgiveness scales using participants enrolled at a Midwestern Catholic university (N = 328). The Forgiveness Scale is a 15—item Likert-type scale designed to measure forgiveness toward an of-fender. The Forgiveness Likelihood Scale is a 10—item Likert-type scale designed to measure tendency to forgive across situations. Factor analyses revealed that the For-giveness Scale contains two subscales (i.e., Absence of Negative, Presence of Posi-tive) and the Forgiveness Likelihood Scale consists of a single factor. Both scales have adequate internal consistency and test-retest reliability. Both subscales of the Forgiveness Scale were significantly correlated in the expected direction with mea-sures of forgiveness, religiousness, anger, hope, religious well-being, existential well-being, and social desirability. The Forgiveness Likelihood Scale was significantly correlated in the expected direction with measures of forgiveness, religiousness, trait anger, religious well-being, and social desirability.
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TL;DR: In this article, the authors examined the relationship between forgiving of self, forgiveness of others, and personality and general health measures, and found that failure to forgive others is accompanied by higher depression scores among men and women.
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...Another feature in the clinical literature is the relationship between forgiveness and religiosity, particularly within religious coping (Pargament & Rye, 1998; Pargament, 1997), and forgiveness and empathy, whereby individuals with higher levels of empathy should find it easier to work towards forgiveness (McCullough & Worthington, 1995; McCullough, Worthington & Rachal, 1997 )....
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TL;DR: In this paper, the authors examined the effects of contact and common-ingroup identification on intergroup forgiveness and outgroup behavioral tendencies and found that frequent and good quality contact with members from the perpetrator group predicted forgiveness and desire for social distance.
Abstract: The present study examines the effects of contact and common-ingroup identification on intergroup forgiveness and outgroup behavioral tendencies. A sample of Bosnian Muslims (N = 180) were asked to report their readiness to forgive the misdeeds committed by Bosnian Serbs during the 199295 war in Bosnia and Herzegovina. A path analysis of the presumed antecedents and consequences of forgiveness revealed that frequent and good quality contact with members from the perpetrator group predicted forgiveness (positively) and desire for social distance (negatively). Moreover, the positive relationship between contact and forgiveness was mediated by empathy and trust towards the outgroup and by perceived outgroup heterogeneity. Common-ingroup identification was also found to be positively associated with forgiveness and negatively with social distance towards the outgroup. Finally, intergroup forgiveness also predicted social distance from the outgroup. The theoretical and applied implications of these findings are discussed.
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...If empathizing with members of the “perpetrator” group provides insight into feelings of guilt or shame that they might be feeling, then this may be a first step towards forgiveness and, ultimately, reconciliation (McCullough et al., 1997; Noor, Brown, & Prentice, in press)....
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...McCullough, Worthington, and Rachal (1997) showed that forgiveness was associated with approaching rather than avoiding the offender and that the motivation to pursue relationship-constructive actions was mediated by empathy for the offender....
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...Previous research (e.g., McCullough et al., 1997; Noor et al., in press) relied mainly on Batson empathy measures (1987), which focus primarily on emotional aspects—i.e., empathic concern....
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TL;DR: In this paper, the chain liability effect increases if an environmental degradation incident results from supplier behavior rather than force majeure, results from a company decision rather than the decision of an individual employee, and is more severe.
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...The perceived severity of a negative incident is important for determining responsibility attributions, because a severe incident tends to be more vivid and salient, causing greater rumination, whereas less severe incidents are easier to forgive (Crossley, 2009; McCullough et al., 1997)....
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...Social psychologists have also addressed interpersonal forgiving from time to time (Darby & Schlenker, 1982; Gahagan & Tedeschi, 1968; Heider, 1958; Horai, Lindskold, Gahagan, & Tedeschi, 1969; Weiner, Graham, Peter, & Zmuidinas, 1991)....
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