Interpersonal forgiving in close relationships
01 Aug 1997-Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (American Psychological Association)-Vol. 73, Iss: 2, pp 321-336
TL;DR: Evidence is found consistent with the hypotheses that the relationship between receiving an apology from and forgiving one's offender is a function of increased empathy for the offender and that forgiving is uniquely related to conciliatory behavior and avoidance behavior toward the offending partner.
Abstract: Forgiving is a motivational transformation that inclines people to inhibit relationship-destructive responses and to behave constructively toward someone who has behaved destructively toward them. The authors describe a model of forgiveness based on the hypothesis that people forgive others to the extent that they experience empathy for them. Two studies investigated the empathy model of forgiveness. In Study 1, the authors developed measures of empathy and forgiveness. The authors found evidence consistent with the hypotheses that (a) the relationship between receiving an apology from and forgiving one's offender is a function of increased empathy for the offender and (b) that forgiving is uniquely related to conciliatory behavior and avoidance behavior toward the offending partner. In Study 2, the authors conducted an intervention in which empathy was manipulated to examine the empathy-forgiving relationship more closely. Results generally supported the conceptualization of forgiving as a motivational phenomenon and the empathy-forgiving link.
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TL;DR: Some commonality regarding the psychological constituents of the process of forgiveness is emerging from intervention models designed to promote forgiveness, and individuals with higher levels of trait empathy find it easier to work toward forgiveness than do those with lower levels.
Abstract: (2002). Forgiveness of Self and Others and Emotional Empathy. The Journal of Social Psychology: Vol. 142, No. 5, pp. 663-665.
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TL;DR: A model of relational humility that conceptualizes humility as a personality judgment is described and initial evidence for the theoretical model is offered.
Abstract: The study of humility has progressed slowly due to measurement problems. We describe a model of relational humility that conceptualizes humility as a personality judgment. In this set of 5 studies, we developed the 16-item Relational Humility Scale (RHS) and offered initial evidence for the theoretical model. In Study 1 (N = 300), we developed the RHS and its subscales--Global Humility, Superiority, and Accurate View of Self. In Study 2, we confirmed the factor structure of the scale in an independent sample (N = 196). In Study 3, we provided initial evidence supporting construct validity using an experimental design (N = 200). In Study 4 (N = 150), we provided additional evidence of construct validity by examining the relationships between humility and empathy, forgiveness, and other virtues. In Study 5 (N = 163), we adduced evidence of discriminant and incremental validity of the RHS compared with the Honesty-Humility subscale of the HEXACO-PI (Lee & Ashton, 2004).
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TL;DR: In this paper, the authors test the theory that perpetrators' apologies are most likely to inspire victim forgiveness when their components align with victims' self-construals, and they find that victims reacted most positively to apologies that were congruent with their self-constraints.
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TL;DR: Brand attachment is defined as the strength of the cognitive and emotional bond connecting the brand with the self as discussed by the authors, which involves two unique and essential elements: (1) connectedness between the brand and the self and (2) a cognitive-and emotional bond, which evokes a readiness to allocate one's processing resources toward a brand.
Abstract: Although attachment theorists have examined the attachment concept in diverse relationship contexts (romantic relationship, kinship, and friendship, etc), the nomological network of the construct has not been fully delineated The purpose of the present paper is to develop this nomological network We define brand attachment as the strength of the cognitive and emotional bond connecting the brand with the self This definition involves two unique and essential elements: (1) connectedness between the brand and the self and (2) a cognitive and emotional bond, the strength of which evokes a readiness to allocate one's processing resources toward a brand We examined factors that create brand attachment, the effects of brand attachment on higher order relationship-based exchange behaviors, why attachments (and hence relationships) weaken or terminate, and how they may be measured
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TL;DR: Patients with substance dependence from a local residential treatment facility randomly assigned to and completed FT had significantly more improvement in total and trait anger, depression, total and traits anxiety, self-esteem, forgiveness, and vulnerability to drug use than did the alternative treatment group.
Abstract: Anger and related emotions have been identified as triggers in substance use. Forgiveness therapy (FT) targets anger, anxiety, and depression as foci of treatment. Fourteen patients with substance dependence from a local residential treatment facility were randomly assigned to and completed either 12 approximately twice-weekly sessions of individual FT or 12 approximately twice-weekly sessions of an alternative individual treatment based on routine drug and alcohol therapy topics. Participants who completed FT had significantly more improvement in total and trait anger, depression, total and trait anxiety, self-esteem, forgiveness, and vulnerability to drug use than did the alternative treatment group. Most benefits of FT remained significant at 4-month follow-up. These results support FT as an efficacious newly developed model for residential drug rehabilitation.
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...…interventions with a variety of problems have been conducted (Al-Mabuk et al., 1995; Hebl & Enright, 1993; Osterndorf, 1999; McCullough & Worthington, 1995; McCullough et al., 1997; Ripley & Worthington, 2002; see Baskin & Enright, 2004, for a meta-analysis of forgiveness interventions)....
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...Social psychologists have also addressed interpersonal forgiving from time to time (Darby & Schlenker, 1982; Gahagan & Tedeschi, 1968; Heider, 1958; Horai, Lindskold, Gahagan, & Tedeschi, 1969; Weiner, Graham, Peter, & Zmuidinas, 1991)....
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