Interpersonal forgiving in close relationships
01 Aug 1997-Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (American Psychological Association)-Vol. 73, Iss: 2, pp 321-336
TL;DR: Evidence is found consistent with the hypotheses that the relationship between receiving an apology from and forgiving one's offender is a function of increased empathy for the offender and that forgiving is uniquely related to conciliatory behavior and avoidance behavior toward the offending partner.
Abstract: Forgiving is a motivational transformation that inclines people to inhibit relationship-destructive responses and to behave constructively toward someone who has behaved destructively toward them. The authors describe a model of forgiveness based on the hypothesis that people forgive others to the extent that they experience empathy for them. Two studies investigated the empathy model of forgiveness. In Study 1, the authors developed measures of empathy and forgiveness. The authors found evidence consistent with the hypotheses that (a) the relationship between receiving an apology from and forgiving one's offender is a function of increased empathy for the offender and (b) that forgiving is uniquely related to conciliatory behavior and avoidance behavior toward the offending partner. In Study 2, the authors conducted an intervention in which empathy was manipulated to examine the empathy-forgiving relationship more closely. Results generally supported the conceptualization of forgiving as a motivational phenomenon and the empathy-forgiving link.
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TL;DR: In a laboratory experiment it is found that harmdoers use apologies in particular if they fear punishment and when their intentions cannot be easily inferred, and after offenses with ambiguous intentionality apologizers are punished less often than nonapologizers.
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TL;DR: The importance of one's motive in forgiving is emphasized, noting that altruistic motives hold greater benefits than do self-interested motives.
Abstract: With the rising popularity of positive psychology, research on forgiveness has flourished. Forgiveness has been found to have application to the field of medicine. We review definitions and describe potential physical and mental benefits of forgiveness. We (1) address potential mechanisms by which forgiveness might affect physical health, (2) evaluate the research on forgiveness and mental health, (3) summarize research on interventions to promote forgiveness, (4) examine issues specifically related to medicine in which forgiveness might play an important role, and (5) discuss forgiveness of self and others and seeking forgiveness in light of those applications. We emphasize the importance of one's motive in forgiving, noting that altruistic motives hold greater benefits than do self-interested motives.
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TL;DR: Forgiveness and reconciliation have been shown to be beneficial alternatives to revenge as responses to an interpersonal offense in the workplace as discussed by the authors, however, existing research on these topics is often narrow in scope, focusing on only the victim.
Abstract: Forgiveness and reconciliation have been shown to be beneficial alternatives to revenge as responses to an interpersonal offense in the workplace. Prior research on these topics, however, is often narrow in scope, focusing on only the victim. Moreover, existing research is often unclear about the relationship between forgiveness and reconciliation. In response, this article proposes a conceptual framework of forgiveness, reconciliation, and their respective antecedents which is both multi-level and interdisciplinary. This framework is used to review the nascent management-related research on forgiveness and reconciliation, and to augment this research from other fields, especially social psychology. Future research directions and managerial implications are proposed based on the multi-level model and research from other fields.
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TL;DR: Lee et al. as mentioned in this paper explored a path to marital satisfaction based on attachment theory and found a distinctive path by which anxious and avoidant attachment negatively affect forgiveness and marital satisfaction through excessive rumination and lack of empathy.
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TL;DR: The present study suggests the contextual factors associated with forgiveness may be further differentiated by gender and that researchers should consider transgression, relationship, and intrapersonal characteristics when examining forgiveness.
Abstract: Given the voluntary nature of adolescent friendships, forgiveness of interpersonal transgressions has been identified as a critical aspect of maintaining these relationships. However, transgression forgiveness is related to a range of situational (e.g., transgression severity), interpersonal (e.g., friendship commitment), and intrapersonal (e.g., victim's empathy) factors. Data from 161 adolescents were used to examine the nature of the relationships between these factors and forgiveness and to examine the differential association patterns for adolescent boys and girls. Results for the overall adolescent sample indicated both situational and interpersonal factor associations with forgiveness (R 2 = .52, p < .001). Examination of separate female and male forgiveness reports indicated similar interpersonal factor associations and differential situational factor associations with female (R 2 = .46, p < .001), and male (R 2 = .60, p < .001) forgiveness. Findings suggest the likelihood of forgiving ma...
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...…discussed in context of conflict responses, empathy allows a victim not only to frame the transgression in light of their previous behavior but also to take into consideration the transgressor’s emotions and motivations (Exline, Baumeister, Zell, Kraft, & Witvliet, 2008; McCullough et al., 1997)....
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...…experiences of others (Mehrabian & Epstein, 1972), and this ability to experience the emotions of their relationship partner may be further related to an individual’s understanding his or her partner feels distressed or guilty after violating a relationship expectation (McCullough et al., 1997)....
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...As a result, the salience of empathy overrides the transgression and leads to a greater likelihood of forgiveness for the transgression (McCullough et al., 1998; McCullough et al., 1997)....
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...Individuals are more likely to forgive an interpersonal transgression when it is perceived the transgressor has offered an apology (Bachman & Guerrero, 2006; McCullough et al., 1997), and this association was supported in the present study....
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...forgive may occur despite a well-adjusted and close interpersonal relationship (McCullough et al., 1997)....
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...Social psychologists have also addressed interpersonal forgiving from time to time (Darby & Schlenker, 1982; Gahagan & Tedeschi, 1968; Heider, 1958; Horai, Lindskold, Gahagan, & Tedeschi, 1969; Weiner, Graham, Peter, & Zmuidinas, 1991)....
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